This site is dedicated to the memory of my beautiful son, Benjamin Arabin.
Benjamin James Arabin was born in Boston in the United Kingdom on 23 January 1992.
His official date of death is 29 November 2014 but the Benjamin that I knew died in the early hours of 26 November..alone in Langley Green hospital.
I asked for him to be taken into hospital for his own safety and it was whilst in a place of 'safety' that he died.
Benjamin is so very loved and so desperately missed and will always be remembered by his family and friends.
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Thoughts
This is quoted in the book I’m reading and I thought I should share it here.
“You have to trust that every friendship has no end, that a communion of saints exists among all those, living and dead, who have truly loved God and one another. You know from experience how real this is. Those who you have loved deeply and who have died live on in you, not just as memories but as real presences.” - Henri Nouwen
Willow
23rd January 2025
Thinking of you often my dude :) the days are long but the years are short
Willow
29th November 2024
Thinking of you often my dude :) the days are long but the years are short
Willow
29th November 2024
Candles
Happy birthday Ben. What I would give to be celebrating with you instead of lighting this candle.
Love and miss you forever. Xxx
Lit by Kady on 23rd January 2025
Happy Birthday Ben, never too far from my thoughts my dude xxx
Lit by Willow on 23rd January 2025
Forever 22
All my love
Mum xxxxxx
Lit on 23rd January 2025
